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How to teach numbers at home: from first counting to Year 2

Updated October 2026 8-minute read By the Happy Little Doers team

The short answer

We all know maths is an essential skill for life. So how do you build confidence with numbers?

It starts with counting, then first sums. And once numbers feel familiar, the bigger sums come.

Numbers make more sense when children can see and touch them. Start with real things to count, then link each amount to its number and its name. 

Once they're secure to 10, move on to number bonds (e.g. pairs that make 10), then the teens, then tens and ones up to 100.

A child matching the number cards 12 to 15 with their dot cards

Flashcards

Where do you start with numbers?

Flashcards can lend a helping hand as they make numbers feel less abstract.

Every number comes in three formats (e.g. '4', 'four' and a count of four), so it's important that children build that association. Roll over to see what we mean:

Tap a card to turn it over.

How it looksThe numeral, big and bold. What it's calledThe written word on the back.
How it looksThe numeral 6. How many it isSix dots to count, or to cover with toys.
Then the teens10 to 20, in the same style. Ten and some moreDots in rows of five, so the ten is easy to spot.

A closer look Hover over a card, or tap it, to turn it over.

3 ways to learn numbers

  • Counting. One number for each thing, touching as they go.
  • Number bonds. The pairs that make a number, like 7 and 3 make 10. 
  • Place value. Knowing that 14 is one ten and four ones (and later that 46 is four tens and six ones!)

What are number bonds, and how do you practise them?

Number bonds are pairs of numbers that make a total. 6 and 4 make 10, and so do 8 and 2.

Children usually start with bonds to 5 and 10 in Reception, then bonds to 20 in Year 1. Schools spend a lot of time on them because they're the building blocks for bigger sums: if 6 and 4 make 10, then 60 and 40 make 100.

  • Use an egg box. A box with ten holes is a ready-made ten frame. Put 7 toys in, and ask how many spaces are left.
  • Use their fingers. Hold up ten, fold down three. How many are still up?
  • Play with cards. Lay out some number cards and find pairs that make 10. Turn them over to check.

Once they know them, bonds make tricky sums easier. 8 + 5 becomes 8 + 2 + 3: up to 10, then 3 more.

What should my child know about numbers, and when?

Every child moves at their own pace, so use this as a rough guide rather than a checklist.

Toddlers (2 to 3): Counting songs, saying numbers in order, and "how many?" with two or three things.

Pre-school (3 to 4): Counting objects to 5, then 10. Spotting numerals they know, and saying which group has more.

Reception (4 to 5): Really knowing the numbers to 10, and seeing up to 5 at a glance without counting. Number bonds to 5, and counting beyond 20.

Year 1 (5 to 6): Counting to 100, number bonds within 20, and adding and taking away small numbers.

Year 2 (6 to 7): Tens and ones up to 100, quick recall of bonds to 20, and the 2, 5 and 10 times tables.

Our son has never been very interested in his numbers… He is now obsessed! This morning he even chose to play ‘Speedy Numbers’ before breakfast instead of watching his tv show, a real first!
Catherine Gee, Happy Little Doers customer
A child reaching for the Numbers cards 4, 5 and 6 laid out on the floor
How to teach numbers at home

Learning through play

How to teach numbers at home

Numbers make more sense when children can see, touch and move them.

Count real things first: stairs, grapes, toys on the dots. Then put a number card next to them, so they link the amount to the numeral.

Ask "how many more?" and "how many left?" as you go. Five strawberries, eat one, how many now?

Number games to play at home

Three ways to play (and learn) with numbers.

Snap the matchMake one pile of number cards and one of dots. Turn a card from each, and shout "Snap!" when they match.
Make 10Put down 7, plus and equals 10. Which card fills the gap? Count the dots to check.
Ten and some moreMatch a teen number to its dots, then find the ten. 14 is ten and four more.

There are lots of fun ways to play with numbers. See all our games and activities

Three habits that help

The best way to teach numbers 1 to 10 is with things they can touch and move, a few minutes at a time.

  1. Count real things

    Touch each one as you count. It stops them skipping or counting twice.

  2. Make it a game

    Snap, matching and "which number is missing?" all count as maths.

  3. Talk about it

    "How did you work that out?" helps them explain, and helps you see what they know.

How much counting practice a day?

Not much, and it doesn't have to be at a table. Counting the buttons on their coat or the ducks at the park all counts. A few minutes most days soon adds up.

Child and parent learning at the kitchen table
Child and parent learning at the kitchen table
Child and parent learning at the kitchen table

Worksheets, apps or flashcards?

Worksheets

Good for quiet practice

Handy once they know how a sum works and want to practise writing it down.

Apps

Handy on the go

Useful for a car journey or a waiting room.

Flashcards

Made for playing together

Numbers, words and dots to count, match and snap, plus symbol cards for first sums!

Numbers posters and wall charts for children

A number poster gives your child something to look at every day, and something to point to when you're playing.

  • Numbers with something to count. Each numeral next to the right number of dots or pictures, so the amount means something.
  • A number line to 20. It shows what comes next, and makes "one more" and "one less" easy to see.
  • Put it low down. At your child's eye level, where they can reach up and touch it.

Then use it in a game: "Can you find the number that comes after 7?"

THE BENEFITS

Why are numbers important?

A good feel for numbers makes the rest of maths easier.

Why are numbers important?
ADDING & TAKING AWAY

Quicker sums

If they know 7 and 3 make 10, they know 10 take away 3 is 7.

BIGGER NUMBERS

Tens and ones

The teens are the first step towards numbers up to 100.

PATTERNS

Spotting what comes next

Odds and evens, counting in 2s and doubling.

CONFIDENCE

Maths they enjoy

Numbers they understand feel less like a test.

The importance of numbers in our daily life

Numbers are part of almost everything a child does, long before they meet them at school.

How many sleeps until their birthday. Sharing out sweets so it's fair. Finding the right bus, the right house number or the right page in a book. Setting the table with a fork for everyone.

Talking about numbers as they come up shows your child what numbers are for. It also means maths at school builds on something they already know, which makes it feel a lot less like a test.

Before you buy

What to look for in number flashcards

Look for cards that link each number to an amount, grow with your child, and can turn into first sums.

Numerals, words and dots

A good set links the numeral to its name and to an amount they can count. Ours show all three.

Room to grow

Cards that go past 10 keep up as your child does. Our Extension pack takes them from 10 to 20.

Cards for first sums

Plus, minus and equals cards turn the same set into sums, so the cards stay useful from first counting to Year 1.

Tough enough for real life

Number cards get counted, matched, slapped in snap and shuffled again. So we print ours on thick card, cut them to A6 with rounded corners, and finish them with gloss laminate. Good cards can be passed down to a younger brother or sister, so you get your money's worth!

A child holding up Numbers Extension cards, with dots cards laid out below